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How you define friendship?

Lately lots of people told me about their problem in a friendship. It surprise me on how under my observation, people at least need 1-2 minutes to answer the question 'how you define friendship?'. God is too good, brain is like having a soul into. When we're being asked 'what's friendship means to you?'  The brain start to playing back memories that will make a person figure out some people or a photograph of other.

Friend/friends are subjects who appear as hordes of benevolences. Unfortunately, actually it's more about tragically, human's nerve system push away any form of enormous gifts or the most expensive present from fake people  as prerequisite to the first time remind someone about friend or friendship.

There's nothing wrong with gifts or present or even with giving materials. The problem is belong to the word 'intention'. Intention is something secret, and be careful cause sometimes we cannot differentiate which one is our real intention. Glaze of heart sound is like a shadow in dusky twilight,  without very extremely knowing how we claim ourselves as personal branding, we will make mistakes in knowing what is in the deepest layer of our heart. And the twilight change to the dark night in our unconsciousness.

A sincere friend should be unpaid. The poorest person is not the one who has no money, it's the one who all she/he has is just money. There's no an abdakadabra in order to have a honest person to be our friend. 100 millions++ of people in our social media sometime don't deserve to be called as friends, they are just drama followers who masterful in commend, expert sugar coater, like back seeker, and accolade petitioners.

Human is given tender hearted and goodness in their heart. Helpful soul will lead us to find someone who appreciate friendship as something pure which don't need currency. Viceversa, materials will only guide us to meet fake, poisonous, counterfeit friendship. Don't feel comfort with artificiality that we made by ourselves.

So, which one do you choose?  A cheap but meaningful friendship or gifts that will lose the meaning after the mask has been crushed?

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