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for the expert liar.

"No matter what, when you're cheating on her. You're not more than an accursed creepy crocodile."

Maybe you don't have any idea how was her feeling when you approach her at the first time, you become the object she think along the night, she's waiting for your text along the day, You become the reason her reddish cheek when someone mention your name, you become her favorite topic when she got meet up with her close friends, even you don't know that your name start to get involved when she's praying.

You can't hide your sin by saying your reasons, whatever it's. Don't blame your new crushes because there will be no one who can occupy when there's no space, and you create it. Also don't blame your girlfriend if you're not statisfy enough in your relationship, because you too make the condition even worst and by doing cheating you're not going to solve anything.

When you decide to cheat, means you already create a silly opportunity for troubles to attack your relationship. You start a war. Cheating is not merely about you will have two at the same time, it's also not only about you proudly think that you can get any girl. But the most paramount is, you're humiliating people as a human who have feeling too. You offend them by spread your nasty bullshit , you disparage them by easily create a sorrow after a while make them fly like she is an idiot flawed doll.

You forgot that she's also a human as same as you, even not as shame like you. You forgot that all of people in this world without exception, can feel happy, sad, angry, jealous, lonely, etc. You don't make an effort to give emphaty, positioning yourself how if it's you, your siblings, your parents, your beloved daughter later who being hurted by someone like what you've done to her.

Further harm, it's out from your short imagination about the impact  of being victims. She may hard to believe a man anymore, because having a painful heart will take a long time to heal. The cheating scene creatively created by yourself will leave some bloody scars, because nothing worse than a condition when you introduce someone to your God as the one you love, but they don't share even a half of his heart to you.

Don't forget, out of millions man outside, you're lucky to have a honest and pure hearted like her. And you're not as that handsome to be an extra ordinary, expert liar.

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